so it's this never ending drama in my brother's life. he just turned 30 and yet, he luck is still the same. this morning he totaled his car, with his wife and 2 of the 4 boys in it. THANK GOD none of them are hurt... the baby is 8 months old and isaac is 3 so they were both in their car seats. joey (my brother) said he breaked too fast and the wet freeway didn't mix. he lost control and the car ended up on the side of the freeway upside down. (of course they live in fresno-home of the 100 car pile up this weekend...) luckily lots of people stopped to help them get out. the kids had to be freed from their car seats but they were just fine. (they already saw the dr this am-turns out isaac has a double ear infection but aside from that, they're just fine).
i don't know how to help them. i don't think its even my place to figure out the lesson for them. i believe sometimes we are destine to repeat certain things until we learn the lesson. i don't know what the lesson is for them... they have to figure that out for themselves. all i can do is support them in their journey.